WHO PAYS FOR
WHAT?
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If you've never been around
anyone who was planning a wedding before, you'd better be sitting down when you
start to take a
look at some of the costs you may encounter. But seriously, a wedding is one of the biggest
financial responsibilities you will ever experience. And like any other major
financial undertaking in life you will have to plan carefully and make certain
compromises in order to insure that you don't break the bank. But that doesn't mean
you can't have a beautiful and memorable wedding. You just have to do some research
and be a little smarter. After all, that's what buffalobride is all
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Working out a budget for your wedding is one of the first things that should be done once the date is set. Will the ceremony be formal,
semiformal or informal?
A formal wedding, of course, will be the most expensive and the informal, the least. Nothing is set in concrete. Who pays for what? Unlike a decade ago, the lines are no longer rigidly drawn. The burden of paying for the wedding has shifted in recent years from the shoulders of the father of the bride, to include the groom's family. Also, with many couples marrying later and having money of their own, they are sharing in the expenses.
There are no longer any hard and fast rules as to "Who Pays for What", but a general guideline follows as to the traditional breakdown.
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The
Bride & The Bride's Family |
The Groom & The Groom's Family |
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- Engagement ring and bride's wedding ring
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- Wedding dress, veil, & accessories
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- Bride's parents wedding day attire
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- Groom's attire and accessories
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- Groom's parents wedding day attire
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- Hotel accommodations for groom's out of town guests
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- Hotel accommodations for bride's out of town guests
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- Other ceremony expenses (candles, etc)
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- Brides flowers (bouquet, corsage, etc)
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- All reception fees except alcohol
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- All flowers, except brides flowers
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- Corsages for grooms mother, grandmothers, Godmother, etc.
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- All photography and videography
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- Wedding gift for bride & groom
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- Wedding gift for bride & groom
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- Wedding day transportation (limo, cars, etc)
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