Home Page

 

Getting Engaged

Announcements

Important Advice

To-Do List

Paying For It
Wedding Etiquette
Unity Sand Blending
Jewelers
Banquet Facilities
Accommodations
Caterers
Bridal Shops
Florists
Wedding Cakes
Decorations & Favors
A Romantic Touch
Tuxedos
Ladies Formal Wear
Accessories
Wedding Music
Dance Studios
Photography
Videography
Rentals
Invitations
WNY Limousines
Hair & Beauty
Gown Preservation
Links

The Fine Print


email buffalobride
Ask BuffaloBride
 

Advertisers
Be part of BuffaloBride

 

 

Back to Paying For It

WHO PAYS FOR WHAT?

 


If you've never been around anyone who was planning a wedding before, you'd better be sitting down when you start to take a look at some of the costs you may encounter.   But seriously, a wedding is one of the biggest financial responsibilities you will ever experience.  And like any other major financial undertaking in life you will have to plan carefully and make certain compromises in order to insure that you don't break the bank.  But that doesn't mean you can't have a beautiful and memorable wedding.  You just have to do some research and be a little smarter.  After all, that's what buffalobride is all about!!

 

Working out a budget for your wedding is one of the first things that should be done once the date is set.  Will the ceremony be formal, semiformal or informal? A formal wedding, of course, will be the most expensive and the informal, the least. Nothing is set in concrete.  Who pays for what? Unlike a decade ago, the lines are no longer rigidly drawn. The burden of paying for the wedding has shifted in recent years from the shoulders of the father of the bride, to include the groom's family.  Also, with many couples marrying later and having money of their own, they are sharing in the expenses. 

There are no longer any hard and fast rules as to "Who Pays for What", but a general guideline follows as to the traditional breakdown.

 

The Bride & The Bride's Family

The Groom & The Groom's Family

 

 

  • Invitations
  • Engagement ring and bride's wedding ring
  • Wedding dress, veil, & accessories
  • Marriage license
  • Bride's parents wedding day attire
  • Groom's attire and accessories
  • Groom's wedding ring
  • Groom's parents wedding day attire
  • Gifts for bridesmaids
  • Hotel accommodations for groom's out of town guests
  • Hotel accommodations for bride's out of town guests
  • Gift's for the groomsmen
  • Ceremony site
  • Rehearsal dinner
  • Ceremony musicians
  • Ceremony officiant's fee
  • Other ceremony expenses (candles, etc)
  • Brides flowers (bouquet, corsage, etc)
  • All reception fees except alcohol
  • Alcohol at the reception
  • All flowers, except brides flowers
  • Corsages for grooms mother, grandmothers, Godmother, etc.
  • All photography and videography
  • Wedding gift for bride & groom
  • Wedding gift for bride & groom
.
  • Wedding day transportation (limo, cars, etc)
.
Back to Wedding Etiquette